We are connected

The following case history is picked from the “Strengthening Your Relationship Cords” Manual.

There is one person who comes here regularly for learning Yoga. Shobana taught that lady the mantra, “I am sorry, please forgive me, Love Thanks Divine“.

That lady has got two children, one male child of 10 yrs old, and another one, a girl of 6 yrs old. One day, there was some quarrel between the two children and the boy bit his sister out of anger. The lady got angry and beat him severely. She felt guilty for beating the boy because so far she has not hit her children.

However, as instructed by Shobana, she was continuing the chanting of “I am sorry” mantra for more than a week, after that incident. Around 9 PM, when they were in the bed, her son came over to her and told her, “I am sorry Mummy. Please forgive me, Love”. The child stopped with word “Love”.

Next day the lady came and told Shobana what had happened. I told Shobana that this was due to the cords, as through them we transmit our thoughts to others.

The child just said “I am sorry, please forgive me, love”. He did not say thanks and divine because Child is nothing but divine and divine is always in gratitude. Divine alone knows how to give, while we seem to only know how to take only.

That is why, we should always approach divine with a sense of gratitude. We should first prostrate (do Namaskar). Then we should supplicate to the Divine.

We should thank first, and only then we should ask from the divinity. 


About Naran

Naran balakumar is a herbalist practising bach flower therapy for the last 11 years. Naran is a Reiki master teacher.

Posted on July 10, 2013, in Behavior and tagged , . Bookmark the permalink. 6 Comments.

  1. Naran sir

    its a wonderful topic. Its a big coincidence as yesterday night i also slapped my 2 years old son 3-4 times as he was not sleeping & my husband was shouting on me & i got frustrated & slapped my little baby.After that im feeling so guilty. Can i also chant this mantra

  2. Many mothers scold and slapped their child,when they disobey,do not listen,not eating ,not studying etc… and then they felt guilty.
    Mothers are also doing multiple jobs at a same time..may be that’s why they get irritated easily.
    What we (mothers) can take or chant to be remain calm ,and behave nicely to kids specially little kids.
    I really dont like to hit or scold my child…but whenever I scold her..I felt very very bad….

    • There is a book by Naran on Bach Flower Remedies and Children.

      Slap: Vine
      Scold: Beech
      Feel guilty: Pine and Honeysuckle
      Overwhelmed with multiple jobs: Elm

      Here, the one combination I found very helpful to manage teenagers and children is, “SLOW CARE TOGETHER HOLD DIVINE”

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